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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Why are you divorcing now vs. when you're financially ready to support yourself? Short of abuse, I would wait until my job prospects have significantly improved. I think you are living in some lala land.[/quote]

This.  Find a solid job first and a decent income.  Unless there is physical abuse.  [/quote]

Easier said than done. There's a lot of emotional abuse. People get divorced of all kinds of incomes. I am 34 now. It's only going to get harder to date and remarry. I know it's best for the kids. The amount of anger in the house is not healthy. [/quote]

OP you need to grow up and make your kids priority #1! Date and remarry?!?!? Are you off your rocker?

No judge is going to deprive your husband access to your kids because you claim emotional abuse. Drop your end of the rope. It's clear from your lack of maturity that you're just as responsible for creating a bad home environment as he is. Yes, you can put aside your petty vengeance and drop your end of the rope. For your kids. [/quote]

She didn't say anything about getting full custody, drama queen. News flash people do date and remarry. It doesn't make them bad parents. Humans have needs.[/quote]

They do date and remarry, yes.  But I don’t think any woman with kids should be getting divorced with remarrying even on her mind.  OP should assume she may never remarry ever again.  She should divorce with the assumption she will be a single mom.  In this case, she needs to accept there’s a very high chance she won’t be staying in a house that’s 1/2 the takehome pay of her soon to be exDH.  That’s simply unrealistic.  [/quote]

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