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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I have a different take.  Seems like OP is being overly sensitive.  She wrote, "but I already really regret agreeing to this because I feel like once again she's going to hold this over my head like she's doing me a massive favor."  But, there's no indication that she did that with the wedding shower, and given the novel-length OP, I'm fairly certain she would have  mentioned it if she was.  [/quote]
I was going to say something similar, to at least question whether OP is interpreting her friend accurately.don’t know if it’s true, but something to explore. I’ve got a friend who tends to think I’m irritated when I’m just…not. We may be debating something, and to me it’s along the lines of a friendly debate like whether Cap’n Crunch is better than fruit loops, with that same degree of who cares, and she will want to end the conversation because she feels it’s too intense and doesn’t want to “argue,” when I thought we were just kidding around. 
I’d also like to know what OP means by holding the first favor over her head. To me, that means bringing it up often and expecting something outsized in return, but OP didn’t mention anything like that.[/quote]

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