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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I'm guessing you haven't had kids, OP. Has he? 
Honestly, either way, no one expects you to look 20 when you're 40. Your boyfriend is actively choosing to be with you. Focus on that. He could be anywhere but he is spending the weekend with YOU. You got this, you hot, interesting, fun woman![/quote]

Yeah, I was also wondering who will be watching the kids. [/quote]

I wasn't wondering about who might be watching any kids, but guessing OP hasn't been humbled by the experience of birthing a child and coming to accept and even be proud of her body. I find I am so much more confident now in my saggy boobs, round tummy, etc, than I ever was when I objectively looked amazing.

It's all really so much more about confidence than our various imperfections, which the right person will actually find attractive.[/quote]

OP: we both have kids who will be with their other parent this weekend. I am confident in my body as I'm very active and my bf tells me all the time that he finds me "insanely attractive", hot, gorgeous, etc. However, dating after divorce is kind of weird. My exH used to call me terrible names and that I had a brain the size of a pea, so I think that took a toll.[/quote]

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