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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Are you mad about the money?

Are you mad he has friends and you don’t because you trail?

Are you mad he won’t include you?

Are you mad he doesn’t want to spend time with you after work?

If you can narrow down the actual issue, it might be easier to find a solution.[/quote]

1. I'm incredibly lonely.
2. Once in a while, I would like to eat meals that someone else cooked and/or are fresh.[/quote]

Neither of these things is for your DH to fix, particularly #2. #1 cannot be his problem during the day.[/quote]

Well it doesn’t have to be his problem but he could be part of the solution. I can see how OP might feel hurt by this because he is literally choosing his coworkers over her if he’s always saying he can’t have lunch with her because he is making plans with them. I’m sure he isn’t intending to be hurtful and it’s OP’s job to manage her emotions, but I get where she’s coming from. So if they just schedule a lunch together in advance, she can be less lonely during the day and it won’t be interfering with his plans with coworkers. [/quote]

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