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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I like the long post too but I have one question. Did you ever say to your husband: 1. When you say you will take the kids but you call every hour and the kids are screaming in the background, it makes me feel guilty and stops me from enjoying myself and truly relaxing? etc and about the housework. What I mean is does anyone actually explicitly call out the guilt tripping/half arsed job stuff, specifically? Before the cheating/rock bottom time. When it happens, I mean. [/quote] Long poster here. Yep, did exactly this many a time. I am a very good communicator (I'm actually in something similar to mediation as a career). So I know all the how to express your needs stuff. I think in my case, it was my spouse's complete unwillingness to accept the realities of married life with children. And my willingness to take on everything. I should have made up that contract long prior and demanded better for myself. [/quote]
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