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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]1. You probably can’t. Figure out how to let the expectation go. You have to be the empathetic one. It sucks and isn’t fair, but leading by example is the only hope. 2. As you mentioned, [b]he’s not conscious he’s doing what he’s doing and he probably DOES feel stupid [/b]and is (misguidedly) trying to cover it up. Making it into a thing will feel like a pile-on and cause further defensive behaviour. 3. Patience. My DH is very similar, but he’s a good guys and he does try. He’s had a lot of sensitivity training at work thats has actually served to make him a better listener. Together with my ability to show empathy progress has been made and it’s appreciated. And I let him know when I see it. [/quote] In my experience people who are like this are deeply insecure people. They need to project their correctness and feel right about everything because underneath they are very weak and not confident. [/quote]
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