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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]It’s not an unreasonable request, but also reasonable for you to say no. You sound like you don’t want to go, not enough to give up what you have, anyway. So that’s it.  No need to frame his request as unreasonable to give you permission to say no. I don’t blame him for not wanting to do a long distance thing and I don’t blame you for wanting to keep the job you like that pays what you need to secure your future.[/quote]

Agree with this.  So many posters are painting this guy as some kind of villain when he's just saying what he wants and how he feels.  He's probably right that it won't work out if you guys do long distance.  Nothing wrong with both of you deciding what you want isn't compatible with continuing a relationship.[/quote]

His request is an entirely selfish one. They're not married, she has no financial security except for what she earns and saves herself, and he had no regard to her situation at all. If this were my sister I'd tell her to break up with the guy. [/quote]

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