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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP: When I talk to him, I was going to use the analogy of us watching a female comedian who said that all men are dogs and worthless pieces of crap and that women only like them for their money. And that we both laughed and that afterward, I said that I secretly agreed with much of that but it's not appropriate to say in real life, and how would he feel?

Do you think this is a decent analogy?[/quote]

I think your analogy is fine, but if you get to the point in the conversation where you have to explain by analogy why you're concerned then it's probably too late anyway.  I'd go with a simple hey - I was thinking about that comedy special we watched the other day & how you said you relate to a lot of what he was saying.  Obviously there was a lot of crazy stuff being said in that special, I'm going to need a little more detail on what, specifically, you relate to.  If he says anything other than Oh no, I wasn't being serious, I don't think like that, that's crazy or No no, I don't think that way, but I sadly know a lot of guys who do, then I think you've confirmed what you already suspect and yeah, maybe time to either move on or proceed with serious caution.[/quote]

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