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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I’ve been dating a guy for 3 months. We’ve been very physically intimate, but have not had intercourse. I want to wait until we decide to be in a relationship. He is wanting to take things slow in that regard, which I’m fine with.

However, the way my mind works, is that- he doesn’t know if he wants me to be his girlfriend, but he wants to have sex with me. If that’s the case, then I’ll wait to have sex with him.  Am I thinking about this correctly?[/quote]If you aren't into casual sex find someone else who isn't.  He needs someone looking for a one-night stand.[/quote]

This is so black and white. If he wanted a one-night stand, he wouldn't date OP for a quarter of a year without sex. 
Having sex with someone you've been seeing regularly for three months is NOT casual sex. [/quote]

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He is wasting his time. He has spent 3 months waiting. This is not casual. OP: your expectations are too high. He has already shown commitment by dating 3 months without sex at 40 years old. You are not 25. He is as good as it gets. Have sex or move on..,but know most men are not going to wait this long. I say this as a mid 40s woman. Grow up,[/quote]

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