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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote]But as someone who left my marriage to be with my AP after a 6-year affair, I will say it is possible to love a spouse but more as family rather than a lover. You can have a very good, calm, happy, but platonic relationship, which in a lot of ways can seem healthy and loving -- but you will always yearn for that romantic component. I think that's human nature. Those of you with husbands who actually desire you take that for granted while patting yourselves on the back for your high morals (and some of you probably deny your husbands the desire they'd like to feel). If OP and her AP are still in love, I think they should divorce and plan a life together.[/quote]

This is vomit-inducing.  Of course your feelings for your spouse changed when you were investing emotionally and physically in someone else for six years.  You can try to rationalize your shi!ty decisions but no else buys it.[/quote]

actually, your reply is pathetic, while her confession was heart warming; who are you to tell someone else how to live their life? why do you even think it is your right to judge and intervene in their family matters? just mind your business.

yes, there are couples were one of them cheats with impunity and the other is not aware and is hurt but in most cases affairs happen because the relationship is broken[/quote]

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