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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I’d focus on creating the best life you can.

I can assure you that marriage and kids aren’t the end all / be all.

[/quote]+1.  You're not trapped with an infertile man, crazy inlaws, a cheater, abuser, etc.  Get a sperm donor and live your best life and don't worry about anyone else.[/quote]

This.  OP, I live in a picture perfect house with a decent looking high earning husband.  We likely seem like a happy family and we are certainly fortunate.

I’m mostly miserable.  I have terrible in-laws, my husband has run around on me, and he treats sleeping with me like a chore.  I enjoy having sex and he’s barely interested.  Whenever we go out or socialize all he talks about is his job and money.  He thinks he is better than everyone else.  He can’t handle drinking and I had to issue an ultimatum I will leave him if he doesn’t keep it under control.  Whenever he drinks, he is unkind to me and acts like a moron.  He doesn’t have many friends because he’s not a very likable person.

I have children but barely enjoy their company.  Most of the time they annoy me.  I just want some peace and quiet.  I feel so guilty about this as I didn’t know I wasn’t a kid person before I had them.

Since I have a vagina I’m expected to plan everything.  Every vacation is planned by me.   I go on luxury vacations but just getting there is a PIA.

What brings me JOY in life is my dog.  I love my dog.  I fantasize about living in a luxury condo with just my dog.  [/quote]

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