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[quote=Anonymous]In reality, can you end your DH afford the hotel but he just doesn’t want to “shell out”? There seem to be some issues in your marriage reflected in this particular conflict. Why are you embarrassed? Do you feel like you have to hide things from your DH because he is judgmental and you can’t be yourself? Do the two of you have communication issues? I can’t gauge if you’ve been very clear with him about your parents’ situation and the hardship this visit will bring them and he’s just being rigid, controlling and possibly cheap or if you haven’t been clear (due to your own embarrassment) and he simply doesn’t have the whole picture. Or a bit of both, He needs to understand that it’s not just your own discomfort that is a factor - it’s the difficulty on your parents hosting for two long weeks when they don’t really have the resources to do so. If you don’t stay in a hotel, I would pay for food and whatever additional expenses they would incur. [/quote]
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