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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My wife isn't cool with getting rid of weekly house cleaning so we can pay for preschool. She has a part-time job on the weekends as a concierge. She's been a stay-at-home mom since our oldest was born. I am on board with her working or not working. Our first child was invited to public preschool because he was in an early intervention program. The second child's preschool won't be free. He goes to the YMCA at least four times a week for two hours a day, and they swim for another hour. My wife thinks gym childcare can provide a preschool experience.[/quote]

I am so confused. Does your wife work as a concierge or is she a SAHM?

How old is kid number two?

I assume you'd clean the house if you stopped the house cleaner, is that correct?[/quote]

She works on the weekend. [/quote]

A SAHM is one who doesn't work for pay.  It has nothing to do with what days of the week she works.

If she's doing things with your kid, such as taking them to the pool, and your kid is interacting with the other kids, then preschool is a luxury for mom, not something that the kid benefits from or is hurt by.  She should get to choose the luxury she wants.  I'd totally pick homeschooling over cleaning in that circumstance.

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I bet anything this guy doesn't do any housework while she's working all weekend. She probably cooks all the weekend meals and comes home to dishes. [/quote]

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