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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My ILs buy our daughter (2) various gifts. While generous, all the gifts are baby dolls and baby strollers and the like. Some cooking toys. Anyway, she’ll push the stroller and they’ll tell her, “Aww, Larla, you’ll make such a good mommy.” It drives me nuts. I want to take her outside at times when they’re over (to play) and they always say it’s too cold. [/quote]
How many hours a week are in-laws at your house?[/quote]

Several.[/quote]
Like 2? Or 10?[/quote]

Every Sunday for at least 3 hours. Then childcare 1-2x a week.[/quote]

So they are ok to use for childcare.  But they can’t pick out toys?  Got it. [/quote]

Never said that. [/quote]
You said every Sunday + childcare 1 - 2x a week. Sounds like you’re depending on their help. Your criticism of them doesn’t seem to be a big deal. Is that your biggest complaint? Are you paying them 25/hr or is it free babysitting?[/quote]

Yes, it’s free. My biggest complaint is that it’s ONLY girl toys and I don’t like the way they talk around DD.[/quote]

So buy her toys you like so she can choose what to play with. Are you super cheap and don’t buy your kid any toys? And don’t expect grandparents to have the energy to run around and chase after a 2 year old outside it can be exhausting. Your expectations are way off the mark for this free babysitting. [/quote]

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