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[quote=Anonymous]I’m the messy ADHD DW with a neater (but not neat freak) DH. It drives him crazy. But luckily he works to not make messiness a moral failing. Or that I don’t love or care for him because he does the majority of the cleaning. And I have enough good qualities that he puts up with me and my mess. I’d like to be neater, but I have clutter blindness. And cleaning takes so much executive function and I just can’t keep a good habit going. The thing with cleaning is, you can outsource some of it. Yes you can have someone come in once a week to clean. But that won’t help the clutter. If she’s not taking dishes to the kitchen, even when she knows she has company coming over, that’s not something that can be solved by a person coming in once a week. [/quote]
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