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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I’m dating a new woman that I really like but she is very messy. I have been to her place twice and it’s a mess. I’m a very clean person and that’s an important quality in a partner. I’m not sure it would workout longterm if we have to live together. Do I say something to her about it? [/quote] OP - be honest with yourself. You ARE sure that it wouldn't work out longterm living together. What other info do you need to have to be sure? You stated that this woman doesn't have an important quality to you in a partner. As for telling her - depending on how long you've been dating, you could say either - I believe there is some misalignment with our life styles. I think you are great, but I can see some incompatibility and I don't think it's right to start a relationship expecting someone to change. Living together is HUGE - and when the NRE wears off, the messiness is going to drive you BONKERS. [/quote]
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