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[quote=Anonymous]I can barely sleep in a bed/room with my spouse.

We don’t vacation with my ILs because the one time we agreed, they said they’d take care of the lodging. Two rooms for them, us, my BIl/SIL, and the 3 kids we had between us at the time. They thought some of us should sleep on the floor. They’ve subsequently pushed again and when pressed on the lodging they’ve said it’s a 2 bedroom apartment for 6 adults and 6 children. No thanks.

My parents had us all in one room through the last time I went  on a trip with them when I was 17 to visit colleges. We shared the bed with the parent of the same sex after I was about 12. I didn’t leave for college until I’d turned 19 and I subsequently declined to accompany the family on trips after the college visits. My brother continued to live with them into his 20s and they shared a room on all trips. My father snored like a freight train (undiagnosed sleep apnea at the time) and at times they made me share a bed with my brother. The worst was when he was a toddler and I was 5 years older. Toddlers are squirmy kicky little things. I was bruised from head to toe.

As a family we rent an Airbnb or a condo and we aim for 3 rooms as our kids are 4 years apart with different bed times and they keep each other awake if they share making it an awful sleep for all of us. [/quote]

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