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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]She sounds a little uptight. Men tease the women they like, and that is time for a woman’s wit, charm, and perspicacity to stand up for herself can shine.

In short, she doesn’t have very good girl game and that won’t change any time soon. I would end it if it were me because I personally don’t think the schoolmarmy, stick-up-the-butt attitude is attractive.[/quote]

So, because OP insinuated that she’s an idiot his girlfriend should just laugh along, otherwise she’s “uptight”.

Women who have backbones = uptight. Got it.[/quote]

People have lost their ability to communicate.  Prior pp was right, men tease women they like.  It doesn’t mean he really thought that’s what she was doing.  In fact he most likely thought the exact opposite.

In your shoes op, I’d take it as a red flag.  A relationship without humor is challenging. [/quote]

But she did communicate…..

OP already said she does have a sense of humor. However, “teasing” doesn’t involve insulting your partner’s intelligence. You’re allowed to tell your partner when you don’t like something. She did just that and didn’t make a big deal of out it. Speaking up shouldn’t be a dealbreaker or a red flag.[/quote]

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