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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP, if you are content to maybe someday barely afford a home, and never have kids, and be clueless about personal finance and probably not have much of a retirement, then you do you.  If that's what you really, truly want.  But if you're thinking you can go on as you have been, and a home and family and adequate retirement will somehow appear without you having to make any changes, you're wrong.  And your wife knows it.

Do your wife a favor-- tell her the truth.  If you don't want a home and children, tell her.  Tell her now so that she knows and can get out.  Because it's clearly not what she wants.[/quote]

+1 something tells me that OP has said they can’t have kids until they buy a home, and his 35 year old wife is starting to realize she might never become a mother or have a family. If that is true, you are the bully OP[/quote]

And the people posting that she’s in the wrong are the same ones who post here and say women shouldn’t have income requirements for dating.  Would have saved this OPs wife a world of disappointment if she had.[/quote]

Well, maybe he had an age-appropriate income when she dated and married him.  He just hasn't figured out how to grow it.[/quote]

Maybe, but if she came on here and said “how do I choose a partner who will be able to support my goals of having the basic financial stability to have children before I reach advanced maternal age”  the men would call her a gold digger. [/quote]

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