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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Repeat after me, OP: “I love you. How can I help?” She needs to be sleeping, eating, and letting your children know she loves them. Housework and socializing are not priorities. Figure out what she can do to be present for family time - dinner 4 nights a week, maybe? And then figure out how to handle the rest. Outsource if you can. Maybe friends you care about both of you can do a weekly meal train to help your family through this crisis. But things are fundamentally different in your family because things are fundamentally different in the world. This is like so many traumas or catastrophic events. You’re never going back to normal. When the crisis is done, there will be a “new normal.” But this is still very much a crisis and your wife is doing amazing work. [/quote] This. [/quote]
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