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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]As long as they are not asking to live with you (which I would not allow), I would stay out of it.

The only expense of theirs I might be willing to pay is health insurance. Pay it directly so you know it’s getting paid. If they have a health catastrophe, is your husband going to want to pay their bills if they are insured? Maybe. So it’s better to proactively pay their health insurance.

Otherwise, pay nothing.[/quote]

Op here,

The oldest lived with us for two years straight ten years ago and the youngest maybe six months top. It was definitely weird having two adults living with us but not working or going to school. Both of them moved back with their mom and dh and I are definitely done raising our kids. Dh and I pay for Health insurance, car payments and hand money. Step kids are currently not working and their mom is on disability. We payed child support until they were 18 and 19 years old. Also paid for college but they didn’t finish as plan. [/quote]

Sounds like you have a DH problem. Why don’t  you ask your DH for details instead of DCUM?  [/quote]

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