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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Dh has a very demanding job and earns a seven figure income. I am currently a SAHM with 3 kids and I handle everything with the kids and household. Dh wakes up and goes to work. His hours are unpredictable so I can never depend on him for any after school or evening kid activities. If he gets home early, he will take kids to sports and activities. He also does most of the kid sports on weekends.

If one parent has a big job, how much does that parent contribute to the household tasks?

I would like to go back to work but I have 3 kids in 3 different schools and I have a hard enough time juggling their schedules and I don’t even work.

My friend who has two young kids implied I am just making excuses. Her husband is also busy, unpredictable schedule and travels for work. She handles all kid and household tasks but has a flexible work from home job. Her kids don’t do any activities.

If I went back to work, I would still have to handle everything related to the kids and house. I wouldn’t just be able to wake up and go to work the way Dh does and I would need to handle all the logistics of the kids in the afternoon.[/quote]

This sounds like us but one more kid. I work very part time, about 10 hrs a week, enough to cover the cost of a nanny 30 hrs a week plus cleaners, landscapers, weekend mother helpers. I could not work full time without really sacrificing the calm stability of our home life and my stress level. Can you get part time work and help? It's the sweet spot for us.[/quote]

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