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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Yeah that’s pretty terrible. I have a 15 year old DSS and am very lucky that my parents treat him totally equally (down to putting the same amount in his 529 as for their biological grandkids). I would hold firm.[/quote] OP here, My parents are wealthy and they have money set up for college for my kids only. I am only child and they do spoil my kids rotten but I just will love all kids to be included on a holiday trip. It's weird to separate them. My husband parents are really nice and fair with all kids. Ex-wife parents live in a different state. I want all my kids to have nice vacation, money for college and normal childhood experiences. My parents are 65 and 68 years old, excellent health and retired.[/quote] Sorry, but you are in the wrong here. It's your parents' money and if they don't want to share it with two unrelated kids who have their own grandparents (two sets presumably!) there is nothing wrong with that. Your husband's parents are biologically the grand parents of all four kids. That's a huge difference. You sound really entitled and a little off in making this a hill to die on.[/quote] Refusing one trip isn’t really dying on a hill. [/quote] She’s turning her daughters against their grandparents and sabotaging their relationship. She already succeeded with the oldest. [/quote]
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