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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I don't have a formal CS agreement and my ex is an attorney. It was TBD in our divorce. I was still in the marital home. It was only going to be $300 a month for two kids anyway.

It actually has been fine because he has paid more than that on kids' tuition for a private school (a cheap one but still) and has not asked me to pay.

That will stop next year. It is not worth the fight.[/quote]

This makes no sense. My understanding is that you cannot just decide not to do it because it is for children. It cannot be waived. There has to be a plan in place. How would a judge sign off on a divorce without child support in place for the children. [/quote]

The agreement says CS will be done when the wife vacates the marital home. I vacated. It is not worth getting a CS agreement in place. He is paying more than what I would get in CS, which is $300 a month for two kids. I work. So does he. I will likely outearn him next year. Then I might have to pay him. We are both contributing to kids so it literally does not make sense to go now post divorce to pay attorneys to put something in writing that we can handle ourselves. And obviously, the judge signed off. We have been divorced for 2 years already.[/quote]

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