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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]If he lives abroad it may be hard to enforce an order. [/quot]

He lives on the west coast right now, and will be notovated not to have issues with his US passport, I think. Do realize enforcement nay become harder if he is overseas again though[/quote]

This is a no brainer. You file like yesterday. He will pay because if he doesn’t he risks losing citizenship and getting deported back to his home country. Keep that part to yourself. If he isn’t stupid he already knows this, has no intention of making regular payments, if he remarries and starts another family he definitely won’t.

If I were in his shoes I put you off as long as possible too. File for custody and child support, the only benefit in waiting is that you have gone a longe time period with defacto custody.  If I were in your shoes I’d file ASAP. Living with a foot on your neck and taking on the burden of single parenting is no way to live. [/quote]

OP here- thanks for this insight, you are right he would definitely like to put this off as long as possible. I was waiting for a year after us all being back in the US to make it extend the time post divorce (and in the same country) that he had not shown an interest in getting custody of the children. I don't know if this ultimately matters or not but feel it will be in my favor if needed. [/quote]

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