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[quote=Anonymous]Firstly, he was snooping. But I think you can give him a pass, though maybe he was having suspicions about something more recent even if unfounded?

Secondly, if you didn't have the exclusive talk, you really didn't do anything wrong. But I do think you have to admit that it would make anyone really insecure when they felt the beginning of the relationship was one thing, only to find out that they weren't as into you as you thought.

I would give him time and space. But I would first tell him how much you love him, how committed you are, apologize for not telling him and explain you were terrified. Tell him you want him in your life and you want to marry him (you did say this, yes?) and tell him you are starting counseling to better understand how this hurt him and you'd be willing to talk it through with him. You do NOT want this one mistake a year ago to derail what you thought was a beautiful life together.

You may just have to let him go. Maybe he'll come back, maybe not. But make clear to him that you want to be with him and you think it'd be a mistake to throw away what you have over a stupid mistake early on that wasn't technically cheating. Good luck![/quote]

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