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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My friend’s (now) ex-DH took their newborn when they got into an argument and turned off his phone, so she could locate  him or the baby. She was absolutely hysterical. She was texting nonstop, pleading with him to at least come home so she could nurse the child. I have no idea what possessed him to do something so cruel, but taking a newborn from their mother (who is their only source of food at this point) is truly awful.[/quote]

That could be construed as kidnapping and she could have filed charges.[/quote]No, it's not kidnapping. It's moving out and taking your child with you. A nursing baby is an extreme case for sure but women leave with the children all the time. I'm the PP of the post above is it only kidnapping when a man does it? [/quote]

Agree that it's not kidnapping, but there's a special place in hell for anyone who uses their children as pawns like this. No parent should be blindsided and wake up/come home to their kids being gone. [I]Everyone[/I] should be on the same page. Adults who act like this - barring domestic violence and true safety issues - are absolute trash. [/quote]"like this?". You have no idea what my situation was and your opinion and accusations mean nothing. A d you're very wrong. Being blindsided was the best option to avoid a lot of turmoil. We weren't ever going to be on the same page about it. [/quote]

Neither does anyone else, so it’s irresponsible to post messages like that. If there were circumstances that justified it, say what they are instead of posting that as if it’s universally good advice. It’s not.[/quote]I will.  My point is, don't judge when you don't know the circumstances.  I objected to, "uses their children as pawns like this."  And yes, everyone "should be on the same page" about such things just as all divorces "should" be completely amicable with both parents in agreement about all issues going forward.  That would be such a wonderful world but it's not reality for a lot of us who then do what they have to.[/quote]

My point is don’t post on a board to be judged and leave out pertinent information and give advice that doesn’t pertain to most divorces. And then whine about being judged.[/quote]

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