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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous] It takes a certain kind of guy to invite a girl to play pool in a dive bar for a first date.  Some girls would love that, some would not.  A girl that comes on DCUM to crowdsource what to do in dating situations is an especially bad fit for a guy who invites girls to shoot pool on first dates.  No judgment on either of you, but you are not a good match and I suggest not wasting each other’s time. [/quote]

I am a guy and this was exactly my thought.  If this was his initial idea, that would be a red flag for 90% of the woman I know.  If that is something he is into they wouldn’t even go on a date with him some place else.

Look at it as getting a dating step out of the way.

If on first date he said I go to xyz dive bar every Tuesday night to shoot pool and split a couple pitchers of Bud, would that be the type of guy you would want to date?  Nothing wrong with him wanting to do that but it doesn’t have to be right with you.

I found a woman I was on a first date with was really into anime. I have nothing against anime, I just know adults that are really into that stuff aren’t people I want to associate with.  Odds are she would be crazy in bed, but I wasn’t looking for a hook up.  Ended the date civilly told her she was nice, beautiful (she was) and I just didn’t feel like we were good match.  [/quote]

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