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[quote=Anonymous]My mom definitely played Golden child/scapegoat and I was the scapegoat growing up. I learned to suck it up and kiss up to her so we got along mostly. After college she was easier to deal with i figured out the formula for having a nice relationship with her. I stupidly moved near my parents once I was married with kids. MISTAKE! I became mom's scapegoat again as dad declined.She needed more help from me and hated me for trying to make her face reality about him and hire help. within a year after he died we were past the point of no return. After enough tantrums and insults from her, I do not like her at all and she clearly does not like me. I care enough to be in her life, but thanks to aging she will only get worse. There is hope for you. Thanks to aging, therapy, time your situation may improve. Your daughter's brain is not fully developed yet. My mom's empathy and self-awareness have eroded, but your daughter's could develop more.[/quote]
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