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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]- knew you would not have a close relationship in the future?  What is your standing now?  I realize my teen is a teen but her personality traits have been the same since she was a baby.  I’m trying hard as a mother in every way possible but D[b]D is a nightmare, her needy, emotional escapades are draining[/b].  I realize it could be way worse, thankfully I have her in therapy and meds, me as well.

I try so hard not to react or indulge in [b]her escapades[/b] but when her father constantly gives in and [b]she takes advantage, it crushes me[/b].  I can’t believe z saying this I can’t wait until she’s 18 and out of our house. At this point, I can’t ever see her leaving, even then; [b]she’s so insecure at 15[/b], she still comes to sleep in our room (floor).  I cannot get my husband [b]to not cater to he[/b]r, go to family therapy, stop trying to be there friend and help discipline.  [b]I’m ‘closing’ down[/b]. Friends say this will all pass when they are older but I can’t see it, I just can’t stand her.

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I'm pp. You think everything you wrote is fact, but I highlighted everything that is an opinion. You don't have to think any of it.

I realize you are feeling low, but I didn't highlight how negative it is. It sounds like you may want to accept this for what it is, hence your question. But, you really do have a choice here, even if you don't see it. You might try CBT if therapy isn't helping you. [/quote]

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