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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Never criticize your DC’s partner before or after marriage to anyone unless it is to your own partner confidentially. It will get back to them and poison your relationship with them from that point on. [/quote] Yep. My mom was very critical of my husband after the first few years of marriage. It was unfounded and it really damaged our relationship. [/quote] Same here. My husband got laid off when our second child was a month old and my mother said a bunch of things that I'll never forget. Our relationship will never be the same. And all because of something that wasn't even his fault! Your child's marriage has to come first; your parent-child relationship is secondary now.[/quote] My MIL had a problem with me when I gave birth. Never forgot it. The way she totally picked on me and was so abusive to a new mother - I kind of wish everyone knew her true colors - truly ugly person. Whatever happened before I was in the picture was bad, and I had nothing to do with it. Come to think of it, any time there was any event in the family (wedding, funeral, whatever) - MIL was there to turn on me - kind of rotten human, in general. I keep my distance, understandably. [/quote]
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