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[quote=Anonymous]OP, part of a long-term relationship/marriage is having the hard conversations. My H and I did not do this at first and we reached a point where we almost broke up. Yes the conversations are hard but that is how you work through things and move forward together. It sounds like you are at a point to have a hard conversation. If you don't have a hard conversation now, before you are married, it will only get harder. Plus you are setting the stage for how to solve problems in the relationship moving forward.

Also, my engagement ring was not big but I loved it because it was from him. My H "super-sized" it years later but he didn't have to, I never complained. And I would never criticize the size of someone else's ring...who does that? And there is a big difference on a budget of $1.5mil and $2.5mil. My H and I have always been on the same page for big purchases...we are about to start a home renovation/addition and talked through the numbers regularly. Sometimes it was hard to discuss what to spend our money on but the effort was worth it.

Have the hard conversation with your fiancee and see how it goes. Then you can decide how to move forward, good luck.[/quote]

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