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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]How much weight are we talking about?[/quote]

OP here. The most she has gained is 40lbs but she will gain 5 or 10lbs, lose the weight with a diet, and then gains 20lbs. It’s a constant cycle the last six months. [/quote]

Maybe she is just more comfortable at a higher weight.  
Can you just tell her to get some clothes that fit her now, drop the dieting, and just focus on living her life?  Tell her that you don’t mind the 20 lbs, but you miss her being the fun, active person that she was when she wasn’t obsessed with her weight and dieting.  [/quote]

OP here. She isn’t. She is the one that brings up how much weight she gained and gets mad and goes on a diet. Then she is god for a little while and starts slipping and gains the weight back. [/quote]

Oh.  I’m sure that has nothing to do with your implicit judgement of her.  [/quote]

Who cares? You wouldn’t care if OP was a woman and his wife was a man. You wouldn’t care about his feelings or how OPs thought would make her husband feel. She doesn’t get a pass because she’s a woman. [/quote]

I think that everyone deserves to wear clothing that fits their bodies no matter what their gender.

I also don’t buy it whenever people say that their spouse agrees with them on something even though their behavior says otherwise.  With women it isn’t usually their husband’s weight, but it could be.  
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