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[quote=Anonymous]We are naturally use to our parent’s habits and their ways to live, we are not used to in-laws. We are usually more empathetic towards our own and for good reason but spouses feel the same about people who raised them. Often their are fears and confusion and misconceptions in IL relationships which magnify little issues to look bigger. Sometimes they knowingly or unknowingly give us reasons to not trust their intentions. Finances, life stresses and time constraints also can effect these relationships. We feel overwhelmed and doesn’t want to carry more burden. Another issue is meeting them when we are all adults with set habits and different life experiences and can’t adjust to each other like babies and birth parents can. Just do the best you can sincerely do and avoid guilt or resentment. We are all flawed and stressed humans trying to deal with life nature throws at us.[/quote]
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