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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP should pause the dating for a couple years while she goes through bariatric surgery and then plastic surgery for skin removal.  [b]BTDT. [/b] It's the only way a person her size will ever be remotely attractive to decent men.[/quote]

I see that the self-hate is still going on, despite of the surgery. [/quote]

I think some of the posts here have been unnecessarily cruel to OP. But PP experienced something that is likely true. She had trouble finding people to date when she was at an extreme weight, and when she lost the weight and extra skin she found she had a much larger pool of people to choose from.

That said I just looked up what 47 BMI really is, and it is heavy, but it is not like, my 600 pound life heavy! And I think OP that the other advice to get a nice haircut and go get some nice clothes and a nice picture taken is a good idea! And yes of course keep working on that weight loss. I have gone from around 38 BMI to 28 BMI in the last couple of years and the payoff is not in who thinks you're hot, or how you look, but in how your body can MOVE and how you feel inside of it (like walking up the stairs).

Good luck to you! And don't give up![/quote]

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