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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]The girlfriend wins.  Most of the “other women” I’ve known like the freedom while being the one he treats as special.  The mistress isn’t being cheated on - the wife is.  The husband never broke his vows to his mistress - he broke them to his wife.  The wife still has to watch him clip his toenails, stink up the bathroom, watch him watch TV, etc.  The girlfriend gets dinners out and an attentive lover.

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Aahhh outdated in today’s world.

In the DMV it’s online married people hooking up.  Middle of the day, leave no trace.  No fancy hotels, vacations or dinners.

It’s the wife going on the vacations to Europe, the Michelin star restaurants and date nights, and the thoughtful gifts.  My ex planned massive surprise parties and dinners for me while his married AP got 40 min in the Marriott during the day once or twice a month and an unsigned card or bottle of wine.

But, you are correct about seeing the grooming as every day things.  But she never woke up next to him.

They both lost as both spouses dumped them.[/quote]

I’d just as soon rather pay for my own dinners and vacations than go with someone who had zero respect for me.[/quote]

Or bang someone in a hotel a few times a month who wouldn't take me out in public or even buy me dinner, and had no interest in me in any other manner.  Even less respect.[/quote]

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