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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]All successful couples I know have given me advice not to be this way and keeping track of this type of stuff is a recipe for disaster. The fact that your spouse is on their 2nd married at 36 (?) might be an indicator they aren’t great at marriage. Did they do any therapy after their divorce or marriage counseling during? Sometimes divorce is the fault of one person, but the majority of time it’s both people. [/quote] I agree with that advice (married 30 years). But do you ever read the posts here about childcare and housework? It’s like the people here keep ledgers. OPs husband fits right in. I’m not a keep track kind of person. Not that some things don’t get discussed - like when you have a a lot to get done on a deadline, there’s a lot of you do this while I do that. But on the normal day to day stuff we’re not like that at all and we don’t keep score. [/quote]
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