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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I’d maybe suggest working on the language of the transactions to make it less explicit. For example, DH and I often check in with each other to see which chores each are planning to do. We also sometimes make a list and divide up the work. Make it “I’m going to wash the dishes tonight. Can you take the car in next week?” Rather than “I’ll do this if you do that for me.” [/quote] Yes, that's better. You two work out a workable agreement together. OP gives the impression that her husband issues fiats.[/quote]
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