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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]You say "Okay. I love you [b]no matter what, and no matter who[/b] you're attracted to." And then you hug her and go on with life because this isn't a big deal. [/quote] I think this is actually a negative message. It suggests that this revelation is some major negative bit of news that you are tolerating. [/quote] I agree (although could see myself having said something similar in the moment). I also think “you don’t need to label yourself” is a negative message, because it discounts the person’s statement that she is bi-sexual. With the ability to respond after having been able to think about it, I’d say something like, “I feel honored you shared with me. My wish is that you always find people to partner with who treat you with kindness and respect. I love you very much and please keep sharing with me as you feel comfortable!” [/quote]
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