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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]To be fair, a big part of the reason “butterflies” exist is that you are unsure about how the other person feels. Does s/he like me? Does s/he think I’m attractive, sexy?

In marriage, we have acknowledged that we certainly do like the other person and we certainly do find them attractive. We’re not constantly wondering anymore how the other person feels.

Having that sense of security about the other person takes away a lot of the excitement for some people. It takes maturity to understand how long term love feels and find the excitement in that feeling. Many people take time to get to that maturity level, some people never acquire that kind of maturity and will always be looking for the next new thing. 
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This is partly true, but novelty in and of itself is incredibly sexy. And no matter how much we can role play or do it in a different room, for many of us, nothing can recreate the sense of passion than exploring someone brand new, different body, moves, scent, etc. I get some people are naturally monogamous, most people and almost all men aren't, so the pull is always there. If you have a good marriage and sex life, you can control whether to act on those feelings, but darn they are strong to sleep around.[/quote]

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