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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]We’ve tried everything, OP. New, sexy lingerie, dates, dancing, losing weight, sleeping in separate rooms, sleeping in the same room, you name it. All bandaids that work for a little bit. We have settled into a nice, companionate love. Sex is like a decent sandwich at this point. It is what it is. -married 14 years[/quote] Ouch. Did you have good chemistry to start?[/quote] I'm similar - married 10yrs, 2 kids. We love each other and have regular sex, but the butterflies are gone. Going on vacation without kids results in better sex, as does the right amount of wine (not too much haha) and/or a night out in a flattering new outfit. However, I don't feel the same nervous/flirty energy I used to feel, and that's ok. Relationships evolve and there is a tradeoff between freshness/excitement and stability/comfort. People who try to re-light the spark are doing the relationship equivalent of chasing the dragon.[/quote]
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