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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote] I was the W who cheated. Married and had a family with AP (he was not married) and we’re very happy. No regrets about leaving xH and never wanted to get back together. He was an angry man (still is) and was miserable to be with.[/quote] Maybe your ex was angry and miss arable because he was married to a liar and cheater? Just a guess. Anyone with any class and a conscience would have left the marriage then started a new relationship. Wonder what sanitized version of reality you actually will tell your kids. Tge fact that you look back on your cheating smugly shows how badly you need therapy.[/quote] Nah, he was always miserable and angry, long before there was any cheating. I tried for a long time to make him happy before realizing he just wasn’t a happy person and never would be. I don’t tell my kids because that’s not something you talk to kids about. Weird that you think your children deserve to know about their parents’ relationships prior to them even being born. I get being upset over cheating. I would leave my H if he ever did. But I also wouldn’t hold onto anger forever. Go through your grieving period, then move on with your life. The people who stay angry forever and wish ill will on their exes only hurt themselves. [/quote] +1. I was the W who cheated, but AP was also married (no kids). We are now happily married. XH was/is a miserable person. He’s still miserable now. I’d love for him to move on, but years later he’s still bitter and angry. DH’s XW is now dating someone. She is a complete narcissist and was shocked that lowly DH would ever leave her. He’s much happier now. [/quote] Wow. You got a lowly cheater. Maybe you will be shocked too. Lol[/quote]
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