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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here. I think I’m just bummed that my DH doesn’t desire to only share certain things with me or do things with just me. Makes me feel like I’m not that important. [/quote]

I think you are missing a sense of connection with your spouse, but are hung up on the exclusivity part of it. It’s the “just for me” part that is coming off as strange, needy, or immature. It is normal to want to feel loved, appreciated and cherished. It is normal to want a connection with the your spouse. Have you read the 5 Love Languages? I think it would help if your spouse understood better what you need to feel loved - it seems like that is your disconnect.

Drop the “just for me” part and work on being able to articulate what you want in a way he can meet your expectation. 
Do you want more words of affirmation from him - to you? Or publicly like those gushy Faveboook posts some people write to their spouse? 
Do you want him to pay attention to what you like and give you personal, meaningful gifts? 
Do you want him to notice what is important to you and do thoughtful things without being asked? [/quote]

I totally agree with this. [/quote]

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