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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Talk to your mom. Tell her that pausing her chemo and the stress of caring for 2 young kids (and living with their selfish father) increase the odds she will die soon.

If she does die, especially if she dies while living with her grandchildren, it will REALLY mess them up. Just adding a grandmother's death into this mix will be awful. At some point, though, they will understand that their parents' actions caused her earlier death. They may even come to understand that their parents saw risking their grandmother's health as a better course of action than having them live with you and go to a different school for a few months.

Now,throw in that the 3rd child will have special needs and that some day these two GIRLS will probably figure out that their dad risked BOTH their mother's and grandmother's lives so he MIGHT have a son...and tell me that's not going to require YEARS of therapy.

Your mom needs to say NO and say that risking her own health at this crucial point in her daughter's and granddaughters lives is not better for her granddaughters than a few months in a different school while living with their aunt and uncle.[/quote]

Literally none of this is true. Have your kids lost a grandparent? A close relative? Mine have. They move on. Yes, losing their mother would be devastating. The rest? Not so much. [/quote]

Really? You don’t think it would be traumatic for a little girl to come home from school and find her grandmother dead at the kitchen table?

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