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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]There are some people that cannot remember dates/events.  Just like there are people who are face-blind, or people who cannot remember numbers or people who have problems remembering certain words.

Does he use a calendar program on his phone?  Put the dates on the shared calendar and have them pop up reminders X days before the event so that it pops up on his phone.  I put a bunch of reminders for myself on my phone and I adjust the notification times based on when I need a reminder.  So, for days when my kids have early dismissal and I need to pick them up, I put it for about 4 hours before so that it reminds me before I put the kids to bed.  For birthdays I have to buy something for, I put the notification like 3 days beforehand so that I can remember to get something before the event.  For birthdays that I just have to acknowledge with a text or email, I let it notify me on the date of the event.  And so on.  Either talk to him about sitting down and filling out the calendar or do it for him and then let the phone do the work for you.[/quote]

Maybe he and I need to sit down together and figure out a system that will work for him.[/quote]

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