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[quote=Anonymous]There is a really, really low bar for fathers culturally/societally. My H has been a model of that low bar, being very under engaged in direct parenting for basically years 0-8. For the last 1-2 he has been much more involved, and I hope it continues otherwise he will basically miss his children's lives and later regret it. But, for years institutions/people reinforced that he was a great father because he was a good financial provider and stayed home with the kids one weekend every couple years or one evening every few months. It’s really quite sad there is a low bar, for all parties — the partners, the dads themselves, and the children. [/quote]
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