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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]The quick story is this:

Dear friend and I have known each other for 10+ years. Went to college together, she was in my wedding, she lives in nyc, we made trips back and forth at least 1x/year on both of our parts over the years. I had a baby over a year ago. She came to DC once (last summer) for the weekend and spent a few hours with him. Fine. Great.

We chat every month or so and she always says she wants to come down again bla bla bla but she is super busy, maybe next month. Whatever. Fine. I get a call from her today saying she is seeing a new guy and he hasn’t been to DC and they are coming down this weekend and would I be free for dinner one night? Of course I say yes. She proceeds to tell me their plans – tourist-y type crap because he has never been. Now, though I did not come out and directly say, “will you be seeing my child while you are in town?” its pretty clear she has no intention to do so.

My feelings are hurt and I am slightly pissed.

Not only does it seem like DS and myself aren’t good enough to warrant a visit on our own, but she has seen my baby ONCE since he was born 16 months ago and can’t make the time to do so on this trip bc she needs to play tour guide for some random guy that (given her history) will no doubt be gone in a few months.

Do I have a right to be mad? Am I being too sensitive? Should I say anything or just ignore?
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Ignore.  Your DS is only the center of your world and you need to remember this.  Stop so damn ridiculous.[/quote]

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