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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]This is such a red flag to me. This is just rewriting history and not taking responsibility for what happened. He seems very manipulative and don't think that he didn't sell that "oh, I never loved anyone before you" crap to others before you. This is narcissistic behavior and he will play hot and cold until he will exhaust you. Did he tell you that you're the only one who understand him, too? [/quote]

This. I would respect someone who would have said, we loved each other, but after 20 years and 3 kids, the love was eroded, we grew into different people, we no longer are compatible, whatever… just not this tired “I never loved her/him” refrain. If he didn’t love her, why did he stay so long, and how does he know he loves you? [/quote]

People keep reading into this. He hasn’t said he loves me. We aren’t there. He did say “kids keep you together,” and theirs had special needs so he also stayed for that.[/quote]

Nobody is reading into anything. This is reaction to the “I never loved her anyway” irrespective of your relationship. Someone saying “I never loved husband/ wife of 20 years” unless it was an arranged marriage and they met on their wedding night, is simply lying or revising history. At some point, he did love her and if he didn’t and willingly jumped into it, then a valid question should have been why.[/quote]

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