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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Were you being a b?[/quote]

I was being annoying. I wanted to take this certification class for work that would cost 4k. He thought it was too much and a waste of money and to explore cheaper options. I felt hurt that he would just put down what I have wanted for a while and call it a 
"waste."

I raised my voice and said it is not a waste to me as it would give me a certification and it hurts me that he can't be supportive. [/quote]

Maybe he is just being practical. What is the household income? How much do you bring in? What will the certificate do for your career? My DH would love to spend money on a number of things, as would I. I would love to take some classes that I didn’t get a chance to in college. But it’s not in the budget right now. For most people, $4K is not insignificant.

Without more context, it’s hard to tell if your DH is being a jerk about the class, or if this would be a sacrifice in the budge without much to gain. It’s not always about what you want. [/quote]

You can be practical, you can even be angry and have a fight without cursing someone out. And if OP's DH can't, he should figure his stuff out fast. [/quote]

Don’t you mean if OP cant disagree without yelling and throwing things? Anger is a choice, anger is useless and not reasonable in this situation.[/quote]

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