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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Were you being a b?[/quote]

I was being annoying. I wanted to take this certification class for work that would cost 4k. He thought it was too much and a waste of money and to explore cheaper options. I felt hurt that he would just put down what I have wanted for a while and call it a 
"waste."

I raised my voice and said it is not a waste to me as it would give me a certification and it hurts me that he can't be supportive. [/quote]

So you yelled at him because he didn’t want to spend $4K on your training. You need better argument skills. Do you yell every time you don’t get your way?

Don’t you have $4K why do you need his money.[/quote]

Oh it's the poster who always blames the victim.  Did you finally get banned from Reddit,?[/quote]

The H is the victim here. She was screaming at him and throwing things.

He said a word, not a nice word but… Get some perspective.

She threw a temper tantrum because he wouldn’t give her $4000[/quote]

Fifty bucks says you’re a guy who is either divorced or never married.  [/quote]

No I’m a married woman of 25+ years who doesn’t yell at my H when we disagree over how to spend money.

OP needs to get a grip.

She was screaming at her H, step 1, walk away if you are frustrated, wait 20 minutes for your body to regulate, request a time to discuss.

Or use your own money and never have the conversation.[/quote]

The fact that you sound like a divorced dude should tell you something. Why do you believe it’s “his” money? That’s usually a misogynist male attitude. [/quote]

The fact that OP Admitted that she was the one who started yelling first and you’re defending her and you think  only a misogynistic Male would defend him says a lot about you.

She was wrong first. He is wrong too but she needs to stop starting fights and playing the victim. It’s extremely immature and toxic.[/quote]

I didn't defend her at all. I just find it telling that you'd say she needs to get "her own" money to pay for this. If you don't think a husband's money is a wife's money too, you're coming from a misogynistic perspective and your entire interpretation of the situation is suspect. [/quote]

No it’s not misogynistic to “have your own money”. If I’d tell  a dude to use “his own money”  too. Why do you assume he makes more money or has money to give? That’s misogynistic. [/quote]

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